managing one's reality

"By paying attention to the way you feel, and then choosing thoughts that feel the very best, you are managing your own vibration, which means you are controlling your own point of attraction -- which means you are creating your own reality. It's such a wonderful thing to realize that you can create your own reality without sticking your nose in everybody else's, and that the less attention you give to everybody else's reality, the purer your vibration is going to be -- and the more you are going to be pleased with what comes to you." Abraham

Everything is magnetically attracted to what Abraham calls our point of attraction, what I call our vibrational signature, and such then becomes our own reality, and this is the only thing that is our responsibility. Everyone else, while we would envision for them all the good things, will do what they will do as they also come under this law. Even if they are not conscious of what they are doing and make choices that we might not wish for them, it is their journey, and the more we water down our focus upon our journey by sticking our noses in another's life and experience, the more our focus becomes dissipated and fuzzy. And, you know the law, "Dissipated and fuzzy in, dissipated and fuzzy out." :-)