Pushing

"Because others cannot vibrate in your experience, they cannot affect the outcome of your experience. They can hold their opinions, but unless their opinion affects your opinion, their opinion matters not at all. A million people could be pushing against you and it would not negatively affect you unless you push back. That million people pushing against you are affecting their millions of vibrations. They are affecting what happens in their experience. They are affecting their point of attraction, but it does not affect you unless you push against them."--- Abraham

Then, assuming this is a correct understanding of how things work, wouldn't it also be true that everything in our lives at the present time is there because we made something...it could be another's opinion or whatever...part of our vibrational signature and it simply found like frequencied things with which to decorate all aspects of what we presently call our lives? Anything you are pushing against or shouting "no" at? Remember, it isn't the words, its the focus. "But it's true!" "But it's wrong!" "But, it's not right!" That and more may be justified within our human adventure, but is it an essence-vibration we want to draw into our focus that will automatically use the one Law of Consciousness (Law of Attraction) that will bring more into our experience?