Practice Makes Perfect
"When you acknowledge what you do not want, and then ask yourself, “What is it that I do want?” you begin a gradual shift into the telling of your new story and into a much-improved point of attraction. You get the essence of what you think about—whether you want it or not—because Law of Attraction is unerringly consistent—therefore, you are never only telling the story of “how it is now,” you are also telling the future experience that you are creating right now." Abraham
So often people are so very busy justifying where they are they don't see the connection between the stories they are telling and the realities they are living, as in we are the creators of our own reality. With humor, Abraham has said that if a tooth fell out, or a brick were to fall on our heads whenever we were focusing our minds on an unproductive level of energy we would eventually get the idea of the importance of staying focused on what we actually want to do, be and have. Remember, brief forays into areas of unproductive thought are really not an important player in our journey, but the habitual, focused, organ-recital-like expressions of our minds on everything that is wrong or bad wherein we are not drawing forth feelings of joy and expectation (a give-away to the folly of the moment), certainly are then acted upon by the great Law and into our lives they come.
So, practice telling your story of what you want to do, be or have. Let everything else but serve as a brief point of contrast that then energizes your mind to pull out all the stops of how wonderful it will be when type thinking.