Abundance

"When you find yourself critical of the way anyone has attracted or is using money, you are pushing money away from yourself. But when you realize that what others do with money has nothing to do with you, and that your primary work is to think and speak and do what feels good to you, then you will be in alignment not only about the subject of money, but about every important subject in your physical experience." Abraham

As we allow another's actions to give us contrast so as to focus upon what we want to do, be and have, and then allow the same actions of the other to continue to be a player in our lives, hence causing a rift in our vibratory signature we prevent this greater good to become a manifest reality in our lives. When someone gives us contrast and we move upon the happy side of making choices that give us the feedback of joy and pleasure, we then need to make sure that we have jettisoned the actions of the one who brought contrast to our doorstep. They have provided us a service, now if we yet keep within some level of activated thought their ongoing actions which we have deemed to be wrong or annoying...of which we disapprove...we shoot ourselves in the foot. Give thanks for them and then let them go...

What We Talk About

"It should only be talked about if the talking will make you feel better. It is of no value, ever, to activate and talk about something that doesn't feel good, because it reactivates it in your vibration; it makes it another point of your point of attraction so you're less clear.

"In other words, when you focus upon the problems of others, you diminish your ability to help them. People believe that you've got to focus upon the problem in order to find a solution. And we say, no solution ever comes forth - it's never inspired; you never recognize it, and you are never able to facilitate or achieve it - from your place of focusing on the problem. They are two entirely different vibrations. If you have someone who has many things going wrong and one thing going right, beat the drum of what's going right, and let that be your point of attraction. If you focus upon their problems, you achieve vibrational harmony with something other than the Source that gives you solution." Abraham

Oh to remember this powerful reminder. Perhaps it is like a parent might have told us to "Not say anything about anyone if it isn't positive." But now the "why's." As we give attention to anything, we drag into our vibrational signature the energy of the focus of our attention. Isn't gossip in this grouping? Do we ever gossip about something wonderful, happy, uplifting and joy-filled? Perhaps the question to remember to ask ourselves: "Is this conversation-energy something I want to bring into what I now am asking to be fulfilled in my life? And, if in a conversation by default, to perhaps do our best to change its direction?

Disallowing

"Our Varied Behavior Adds to the Planet's Well-Being... When you remember that nothing can come into your experience without your Vibrational invitation of it, then you do the simple work of paying attention to your own Vibrational offering, and you save yourself the enormous and impossible task of controlling the behavior of others. When you remember that the varied behavior of others adds to the balance and the Well-Being of your planet even if they offer behavior that you do not approve of; and that you do not have to participate in the unwanted behavior, and will not - unless you give your attention to it - you become more willing to allow others to live as they choose." a quote from the new Abraham book, The Vortex.

The more we make the choice to disallow anyone's behavior to negatively impact us, the more that behavioral choice will not come onto our radar screen of life and upset us. The more we rail against it...be it family close at hand, government or nations...the Law of Attraction will automatically point out more things that we can become embroiled within and hence unhappy. We only need to participate in behavior patterns of our choosing and we do this the quicker as we simply accept the myriad of behavior choices that makes the world interesting rather than going out of our way to label other's choices as wrong or bad. Don't we have enough to do to make these choices for ourselves and not for everyone else?